what is it - that U cannot forgive... ever

I thought about it

the first thing on my mind was betrayal

if ur lover or best relative or someone close betrays you

lies to you

but then after thinking i realised

betrayal is in our lives all the time - sometimes we dont think and it happens

we forgive and we dont think

things small we let go off

and when we think about it

they always say -

if u cannot forgive somebody for doing some thing bad to you

then you have not forgiven yourself

people hold on to tears and fears from other people when truly the pain is from themselves

I know its hard to forgive

but its a teaching method

its a form of happiness

forgiving someone - letting go of the anger

trying to forget the pain

and before you know it

you have forgiven

so really the one thing I cannot forgive is not being able to forgive!