Thursday, November 20, 2008

Everything is cool...Hijab style 2 (POW)

This Dress is a picture of words -
Nice material,
Sharp but not tight
Most importantly conservative-

The earrings are super nice as well

A head scarf wrapped around the hair in a way to show of the earrings and neck part of the dress would finish this look as a Modern Hijab style full of Glamour -

Muslim girls should feel comfortable about the way they dress and not feel that they are missing out on anything just because they cant show off some skin - This picture is an example that conservative dress is Sexy, Beautiful, Smart and Appealing - it's the way you feel about yourself , what you believe in and your personality that will fulfill the image full of confidence and beauty -

Here is another example of Beauty and conservation -

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Self confidence: A True insight

Self confident

Doing what you believe to be right, even if others mock or criticize you for it.
Not confident

Governing your behavior based on what other people think.
Self confident

Being willing to take risks and go the extra mile to achieve better things.
Not confident

Staying in your comfort zone, fearing failure and so avoid taking risks.
Self confident

Admitting your mistakes and vowing to learn from them.
Not confident

Working hard to cover up mistakes and praying that you can fix the problem before anyone is the wiser.
Self confident

Accepting compliments graciously. “Thanks, I really worked hard on that prospectus. I’m pleased you recognize my efforts.

Being self confident I must admit is one of the hardest things I find to do- I'm going to work on it in every possible way - And some of the above are the starting point - I have found that it is a trait that can begin with simple entities and soon become overpowering - Most importantly it effects everything you do- i'e You can be very smart and know what to do in a situation but feeling that 'you can't do it' , 'you are afraid of ruining it' are the keys to opening the low self confidence door - Of course if you are not self confident in the way you feel about yourself whether its personality or beauty then this will effect your state of mind and level of happiness.

There are so many books out there, people that talk about it and magazine right, left and centre

How many times have you heard the phrase


My opinion is self confidence is from within and yes even though certain things I mentioned can help you - it really takes your own inner willpower and a great challenge of self change in terms of how you think, percieve and see yourself and your abilities and capabalities.

Here are a few things I am doing to help my self confidence

- Love God, Islam and ask God for the self confidence I need and have dedication towards my religion(Islam)

- Have a great knowledge of my profession

- Be energetic and take up excercise (gym + swimming) and a healthy lifestyle

- Always feel I am happy and pleased with my looks and appearance ( To do this I ensure I love the way I look - my clothes, shoes, perfume, etc).

Sunday, November 9, 2008

POW - Loyal to the Dream

Picture Of Words - This picture is amazing - It's like Raining colours of Beautiful Islam down on me - making me feel I need to stay Loyal to the Dream of keeping faith, staying strong and believing in God no matter what -
The beautiful colours are how You feel when you are full of serentiy and tranquilty from wearing the Hijab - yet those colours can also be a metaphor for all the wonderful reflection this girl has in her life -
The girl in the picture is so modern, looking at ease and beautifully in love with who she is and what she wants - she is not stressed and she is not unhappy - I think that whenever I see this picture, It's where I want to be.

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Christina Aguilera - Save Me From Myself

I love the atmosphere that this song creates -
Super Romantic
Beautiful Love
Tender need

I love her clothes - The casual side and the wedding dress idea is amazingly different and beautiful -
I think the veil she wears is actually a very good design for Hijab Style -

The words are so meaningful and full of feminity yet strength - I think that a lot of women think they can't show their feelings of dependance to a man otherwise they will become weak - but I think that showing a man how much you need them and really needing them is a beautiful part of love and makes a woman stronger and the relationship stronger.

I love this song!

Friday, November 7, 2008

A Devils Love - Studying - الدراسة

This series is so interesting, educational and most of all intimidating to the heart and mind of what a devils love really is - wicked and evil - and falling to our weakness and bad intentions are only the beginning of a losing desperate road if we ever do fall in love with a devils love -
Nothing makes us feel more helpless, and so torn apart, broken down and lost than listening to the devil-
Nothing is more harder than fighting the temptation to give in to whatever seems so reasonable and lustful at the time - but deep in our goodness we know its a powerful lie, defeat of a challenge - and nothing is less attractive than a quitter
This battle we should never give in to- to win ourselves and not let this fake devils love win us over temporarily and we need to prove to ourselves the meaning and loyalty that we hold internally, and keep our souls strong and clean for God to see.

I was really moved by this series called - abaleeso and I hope it will be a striking truth for young people to learn from (THIS IDEA AND THE REST OF THEM) -

What it is...

I see Life like a rose in the ice... beautiful but with cold settings - There are so many incredible things out there - but we always need to fight and perservere against the hardships too... otherwise the cold will win ... and we will wither away.

My imagination has led me to believe in something called 'Sudan Fairytale' -
The fantasy that My country will one day be independant and proud, never selfsish to provide its people with its needs, give freedom and success to all, be forever committed to achieve a prosperous inhabitance to every Sudanese in their own country-

My eyes fail me and I see the truth which I call - 'Khartoum Heartbreak' - This is a theme running through the blog under the 'Khartoum Heartbreak' Poems and whatever else about Sudan conveying broken down love, poor streets and cut off electricity along with a lot of other decays and problems in Khartoum city Life.

But I love my country and so I have no choice but to merge the Pain and the Love as one.

Faith is my heart and I could never do without it hoping in my prayers that I can be someone better always and that God forgives me as I fall in Mistakes through that frozen path of Life...

Sometimes I feel under control with all the too many emotions that run to colour my days and nights - Books, movies, music, dreams, friends, family, strangers, travel, - reality - the 10 O' Clock news -Most of the time I'm very Lost in trying to understand - whatever happens becomes tangled into writing this confusing memoir -

It's a really odd combination of air - not sure whether it is refreshing or suffocating - stabilising or maddening - But I breathe and
so it is
'Memoirs of a Sudanese breath' as I am 'Lost but under control' -