Self confident
Doing what you believe to be right, even if others mock or criticize you for it.
Not confident
Governing your behavior based on what other people think.
Self confident
Being willing to take risks and go the extra mile to achieve better things.
Not confident
Staying in your comfort zone, fearing failure and so avoid taking risks.
Self confident
Admitting your mistakes and vowing to learn from them.
Not confident
Working hard to cover up mistakes and praying that you can fix the problem before anyone is the wiser.
Self confident
Accepting compliments graciously. “Thanks, I really worked hard on that prospectus. I’m pleased you recognize my efforts.
Being self confident I must admit is one of the hardest things I find to do- I'm going to work on it in every possible way - And some of the above are the starting point - I have found that it is a trait that can begin with simple entities and soon become overpowering - Most importantly it effects everything you do- i'e You can be very smart and know what to do in a situation but feeling that 'you can't do it' , 'you are afraid of ruining it' are the keys to opening the low self confidence door - Of course if you are not self confident in the way you feel about yourself whether its personality or beauty then this will effect your state of mind and level of happiness.
There are so many books out there, people that talk about it and magazine right, left and centre
How many times have you heard the phrase
BOOST YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE BY LOSING WEIGHT!
My opinion is self confidence is from within and yes even though certain things I mentioned can help you - it really takes your own inner willpower and a great challenge of self change in terms of how you think, percieve and see yourself and your abilities and capabalities.
Here are a few things I am doing to help my self confidence
- Love God, Islam and ask God for the self confidence I need and have dedication towards my religion(Islam)
- Have a great knowledge of my profession
- Be energetic and take up excercise (gym + swimming) and a healthy lifestyle
- Always feel I am happy and pleased with my looks and appearance ( To do this I ensure I love the way I look - my clothes, shoes, perfume, etc).
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