fault urself before others

If you want to count the faults of anyone else, count your own faults instead.
you will find  there are plenty to use before using others
faulting other people is a fault on its own
for it means you are selfish
you are cruel and you are ignorant of yourself
if you count your own faults you will cry
you will forget others for you will worry about how you can ever repay for these bad deeds
how will you be forgiven for all these problems you have created
becasue for every thing wrong you have done
there is a negative effect
even if it is - that you have to pay for it yourself one day - standing in judgement day
think of it this way
you will only be held accounted for YOUR faults
nobody elses
so thinking about others laughing at htem feeling relief that you are not as bad as them questioning them wondering about them worriing about them is all a part of useless thinking - and a new fault to hold

faulting yourself will make you light headed - down to earth for you will realise your sins are vast massive and worth drastically changing